Quick Intro:

“They say the best type of love is unexpected, but they forgot to mention falling in love unexpectedly with someone you can’t have is the most painful.” — Tilicia Haridat

Love happens unexpectedly. You may get to realize only after a short time when you get to start missing them. A break-up creates remorse and hard feelings but there’s nothing to worry much about it. When you reach the peak of success or contentment, the right person will knock your heart who is ready to be your co-passenger in the journey of life, struggles and who’d shower you the love for whom you are.

Love can be both exhilarating and terrifying, a wild ride that takes us on unexpected twists and turns. Sometimes, we fall in love with someone we never expected to, someone who we know is not right for us, someone we can’t have. This kind of love can be the most painful experience we endure, as we grapple with the weight of our emotions and the futility of our desires.

In those moments of confusion and heartache, we may feel lost and alone, wondering if we’ll ever find the right person to share our journey with. We may struggle to let go of our feelings, clinging to the hope that somehow, someday, things will work out. We may question our own judgment, wondering how we could have fallen so deeply for someone who is so clearly wrong for us.

But as we navigate the ups and downs of life, love has a way of finding us when we least expect it. It may come in the form of a chance encounter, a meaningful conversation, or a shared experience that brings us closer together. It may be the result of years of hard work, perseverance, and self-discovery, as we learn to love ourselves and attract the right person into our lives.

Here’s a poem describing a person’s confused feelings they are felt after falling in love unexpectedly. Hope you LIKE it. We would love your thoughts, please do comment!

“ಮುಂಜಾನೆಯ ಮುಸುಕಿನಲಿ,
ಯಾರನ್ನೋ ಹುಡುಕುತಲಿ,
ನೀ ಏಕೆ ಬಂದೆ ಇಬ್ಬನಿಯಾಗಿ..? [2]

ಇಬ್ಬನಿಯ ಹನಿಹನಿಯೊಂದಿಗೆ ಶುರುವಾದ ಪ್ರೀತಿ,
ಅದರೊಳಗೆ ಅಡಗಿದ್ದರು ಅಡಗಿದ್ದರೂ ಭೀತಿ,
ನೀ ಏಕೆ ಬಂದೆ ನನ್ನ ಜೊತೆಯಾಗಿ,
ನನ್ನ ಒಂದು ಉಡುಗೊರೆಯಾಗಿ..? [2]

ಮುಂಗಾರು ಮಳೆಯಂತೆ ಬಂದ ಹರುಷ,
ಕೊಂಡೊಯ್ಯಿತು ‘ಒಂದು’ ವರುಷ,
ನೀ ಏಕೆ ಬಂದೆ ಆ ಮಳೆಯಾಗಿ,
ಆ ಹಸಿ ಮನಸಿಗೆ ಬಹು ಹತ್ತಿರವಾಗಿ..? [2]

ಸಾಗುತ್ತಿದ್ದೆನು ನಾ ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯನ್ನೇ ನಂಬಿ,
ಸಾಗುತ್ತಿದ್ದೆನು ನಾ ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯನ್ನೇ ನಂಬಿ,
ನನ್ನಯ ಕಣ್ಣಿನಲಿ ಆ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯ ತುಂಬಿ,
ಹೊರಬಂದೆ ಏಕೆ ನೀ ಕಂಬನಿಯಾಗಿ,
ಹೊರಬಂದೆ ಏಕೆ ನೀ ಕಂಬನಿಯಾಗಿ…??”

Quick Intro:

“Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children.” — Alex Haley

Having a Grandmother is such a blissful feeling. Though we didn’t realize their worth initially, we did – as we grew up. Being with her makes our life easy and seeing through her perspective we see the other side of this world – so wonderful. Though words are deficient to express, have tried a bit to covey my feelings towards my granny
Hope you LIKE this elegy and please do comment down your thoughts.

“ಜೀವವದು ಎಲ್ಲವನ್ನು ಕಂಡಿಹುದು,
ಜೀವವದು ಎಲ್ಲವನ್ನು ಅರಿತಿಹುದು,
ಜೀವವದು ಜೀವನವ ಕೊಟ್ಟಿರಲು,
ನಿಸ್ವಾರ್ಥ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯ ಹಂಚಿರಲು,
ನಿಷ್ಕಲ್ಮಷ ಭಾವನೆಯುಳ್ಳ ಜೀವವದು,
ಜೀವವದು ಇನ್ನಿಲ್ಲವಾದದ್ದು;

ಓ ನನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯ ಅಜ್ಜಿ,
ಮತ್ತೆ ಹುಟ್ಟಿ ಬಾ,
ಬಾಳಲಿದೆ ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರಿಗೂ ನಿನ್ನೊಂದಿಗೆ,
ಬಾಳಲಿದೆ ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರಿಗೂ ನಿನ್ನೊಂದಿಗೆ.. 

ನೀ ಹೇಳಿದ  ಕಥೆಯು, ಇನ್ನು ಕಿವಿಯಲ್ಲೇಇಹುದು,
ದೂರಾಗಬೇಡ ನಮ್ಮ ನೆನಪುಗಳಿಂದ,
ಮರೆಯೆಲ್ಲಾ ನಾ ನಿನ್ನನು;

ಕ್ಷಮೆಯಿರಲಿ ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರ ತಪ್ಪಿಗಾಗಿ,
ಎಲ್ಲೇ ಇದ್ದರು ಹೇಗೇ ಇದ್ದರೂ,
ಆಶೀರ್ವದಿಸು ನೀ ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರನು.. [2]

ಕೊಡಲೇನು ಆಗಲಿಲ್ಲಾ ನಾ ನಿನಗೆ,
ಆದರೆ ನೀ ಕೊಟ್ಟದ್ದು ಬಹಳಷ್ಟಿದೆ ನನ್ನೊಂದಿಗೆ,
ಮರೆಯಲ್ಲಾ ನಾ ಕಳೆದಯಾವ ಕ್ಷಣವನು ನಿನ್ನೊಂದಿಗೆ,
ಮೆಲುಕಾಕುವೆ ನಾ ಅದನು ಮುಂದಿನ ಪೀಳಿಗೆಯವರಿಗೆ,
ಬೇಸರವೊಂದೇ ಅಜ್ಜಿ,
ಕೊಡಲೇನು ಆಗಲಿಲ್ಲ ನಾ ನಿನಗೆ,
ಕೊಡಲೇನು ಆಗಲಿಲ್ಲ ನಾ ನಿನಗೆ..”